Lindsay Staying Sober in The City

Lindsay Lohan has chosen Los Angeles for New York in order to maintain her Sobriety. The 27 year old actress- who just completed a 90 day rehab stint for substance abuse after pleading no contest to charges of lying to the police about driving during a car crash in June 2012.

According to sources Lindsay is doing so well she is back in new York City and is trying to figure out where she is going to live and what she intends to do next with her life she is clean and sober now and she is planning to stay that way.

Lindsay is a club lover in New York but this time she's is more focused on work alone and staying away from any trouble.

Oprah Winfrey Flaunt Striking Afro and her Fabulous Look

She transformed herself into a household name by doing a make over in front of her fans. Oprah Winfrey has done it once more and this time she is wearing Afro on the cover page of September issues of her magazine O.  for every magazine issue released she is always on the cover page. she released the image on her social media accounts on Monday.

She wrote "Just revealed this new cover of O The Oprah Magazine- one of my faves ever- Lets talk  about HAIR! Love this cover so much I'm making it my new profile pic!"

Condolence with Governor Babatunde Raji Fashola

The honorable Governor Babatunde Raji Fashola, Alhaji Ademola Fashola has passed on. The elder Fashola passed on in the early hours of Monday report says he was ill. BeyoundSayWithBella condoles with the Governor Babatunde Raji Fashola and the entire  Fashola family, and we pray for the peaceful repose of this great man.

More Tips to Help you Through a Healthy Relationship

1.Combine heads: two heads are better than one being in a relationship is more like a merger which means you complete each other you have not only combined assets but inherited each others problems and from that moment you begin to think alike and tackle issues together.

2. Distance: distance makes the heart grow fonder to maintain a solid relationship try having a night out without your spouse this situation will remind you of how much he/she means to you and the fact that you miss he.she keeps you sane.

3. Sound: sound it out talking out tough subjects that has to do with Money. Religion, Fidelity, and raising kids are not the most fun subjects to talk about but they are valuable topics.

4. Laughter: it is funny what smiles and laughter do to to relationships learn to smile for yourself and at your spouses silly mistakes and jokes do not take every situation seriously.

5.Eyes on the price: learn not to derail from your target don't take little things to be a sign of "he does not care about me" remember to be in a happy practical relationship you must be prepared to get tangled up in every minor annoying detail.

6. Quit: have you heard of the saying quitters never win find a way to keep your relationship alive don't give up easily on your spouse fight to keep your relationship no matter what it cost. Do stuffs like renewing vows every year, committing to explore using different conjugal methods and techniques.  

RELATIONSHIP TIPS

1. Manners: please can you help me with, Thank you, and you are welcome these compliments go a long way in reminding your partner of how much you care and that you respect and love him/her and don't take him/her for granted.

2. Spice it up: The success to any relationship involves spicing things up a little. studies have shown that continuous routines can lead to dissatisfaction with a relationship. Try something new outside the box might just spice it up.

3. Play together: couples that plays together, stay together find a common ground with your spouse something you both love to do either, sports or a hobby and make that a priority in your relationship.

4. Fights: learn to argue right in order to have a productive argument, couples would have to keep some certain rules in mind. don't cal your spouse names. when things get tough, take a break or walk out of the argument. talk to each other one at a time allowing the other person to complete a sentence before you reply. always avoid a discussion when you are angry.

5. Compromise: scratch my back and i will scratch yours, no one likes demands in a relationship but every one appreciates a compromise. If you want your lover to do something and you're not sure he/she'll be agreeable, the quickest way to avoid a confrontation is to sweeten the deal. For example: "Sure, I'll watch Monday Night Football if you take me to see the next movie of my choice."

ARE YOU HAVING ISSUES COPING WITH THE ARRIVAL OF THE NEW MEMBER OF THE FAMILY

The change from being young couples to being parents is not always easy. Usually parents realizes there is barely time for them compared to when no there was no baby involved. Your conjugal life changes, you have to combine your daily livelihood and family affairs and also find a way to start learning about bringing up children.

BeyondSayWithBella recommends that young expecting mothers read the book BABYSHOCK

this book explains how your relationship can be affected at the first try for a baby, through pregnancy, childbirth, and babyhood up to the different stages of infant lifecycle from toddlers to childhood.

Things to keep in mind once you give birth

1, Communication: always talk to your partner constantly as well as parents- you will find out the older ones might have experienced such conflicting feelings and would be in the best position to advice and give useful guidelines.

2, Support: the husband and wife need to support each other through the process take turns in caring for the child take time out and have quality time

3, Kindness: be kind to each other and the love flowing between the two of you will extend to the child parents try to rest properly studies has shown that lack of sleep causes intolerance and frayed tempers.

4, Sleeping separately: can help at least one parent from falling apart keeping in mind you don’t sleep apart for to long and get used to staying apart for too long NOTE: it is important for couples to slee together

THIS WEEK ON LETTERS TO BELLA

THIS WEEK ON LETTERS TO BELLA

Dear Bella,

I am in a crashing situation, I feel like my world has come to an end. I have a boyfriend and we have dated for 3 years I had to complete my education so I traveled out for masters. While in school I tried all means of communication with my boyfriend just to keep communication from being a barrier overall things has been smooth between us. There is this cute and nice guy in my class that has been really nice to me and I think I like him a bit one night we went out and drank a lot we went back to his place and one thing left to another I just realized am pregnant what do I do. These are my questions

1.      Should I tell my boyfriend?

2.      Should I keep the baby? Please what do I do about my situation?

Thanks for confiding in me but I must say your situation is really critical am sorry to say my responds might not be what you expect. i will like to let you that the truth always prevail so the decision of whether or not to tell you boyfriend depends solemnly on you. keeping the baby strongly depends on your present situation with your boyfriend and how or what you think about the new guy. please whatever decision you settle for kindly weigh all your option carefully, kindly let me know what you decided.