Sunday, September 8, 2013
10 tips to a healthy Relationship
Each and every one of us want to have a great relationship. To do that please follow this steps carefully
1. Use your head, not just your heart, when picking a man and look at the whole package before making your choice.2. Know the difference between lust and love – it will save you a lot of heartache.
3. Learn to voice your desires: Your partner isn't psychic and he can't make you happy unless you let him know what fulfills you.
Saturday, September 7, 2013
Don't Mother your Lover
Women instinctively play the role of nurturer in a relationship, but mothering your partner could backfire.
As human beings our first relationship is with our mother. It is therefore understandable that what we experience and observe in this relationship will affect our other relationships. In the case of women, our mothers are also our first gender role models. We see our mother as the nurturing caregiver and this becomes hard-wired into our brain. In the case of men, mothers often take such good care of them that they come to expect this from their partners: if she loves me, as my mother did, she would take care of me, as my mother did. Such men will take on the role of helpless child – and so the scene is set for a whole lot of mothering.
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