I seriously want to believe there is a saying somewhere that the more you tell a woman how beautiful she is the more beautiful she becomes. If it’s not a saying, it should be, because there is so much truth to this little nugget.
To be desired is a powerful aphrodisiac; to be told why you are desired is a love potion par excellence. My favourite lovers have been those that didn't hold back or hold out on telling me how much my body, my smile, my curves, my legs, my smell turns them on. And I do the same even with those shy little tigers too afraid to open their mouths. They eventually come around.
S*x is an act of the senses and all of them should be indulged. But it is also an act of vulnerability, and verbalizing your appreciation for your partner’s assets (whatever they are) is a validation and an ego boost. No s*x god or goddess was created in the midst of raised eyebrows and bored stares. It seems so obvious; you’d think that all sexy bedrooms would be filled with words of saucy love and body worship and yet .......
Fell free to share your thoughts do you agree or disagree with me?
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