Why do Girls get Played?

Do you ever get tired of hearing tragic love stories from women? 

It really breaks my heart to hear how girls get played out relentlessly; I know you ladies can feel me on this one. One of the worst things to feel is played out by your man. 

After one of these horrible experiences women feel back stabbed, betrayed, bitter and brokenhearted! But I've noticed a common factor in all the crazy stories and it’s that women say this same thing, “I let it happen.”

What do you mean you let it happen? Yes, that means that there is a way to be aware if your boy is playing you out and the opportunity to act upon it! Ladies, there are red flags that you shouldn't be oblivious to. Don’t let the crazy story happen to you!

1. know your IDENTITY! Ladies, know who you are and value yourself! Know that you are beautiful, you are a queen and you deserve the best! So don’t settle for BS, some things are unacceptable.

2. there is so much love in this world! If you aren't being loved in the way that you want to be loved, then Leave! This world is filled with people who want to love you, don’t think it can only come from one person. So don’t feel limited or manipulated to stay in a relationship. Men love to make woman feel like no one else can love them. That’s the bull!

Now lets get down to business. Its hard to keep your eye open for red flags while trusting your partner at the same time, but you need to keep a  healthy balance of both! If you witness suspicious behaviors that give you a funny feeling, verbalize it even if you don’t have substantial information to back it up. Don’t be afraid to question things!  And if he doesn't want to answer or if the answer is ridiculous, then that is a red flag you need to keep record of.

3. there is always room for hope. Cheaters are only cheating themselves (my next post-stay tuned).   Don’t let a bad experience ruin your chances to meet your prince. I encourage you to rise above the negativity and stay resilient! Love is never ending and its never too late to love!

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