Mina tells Encomium what happened
"My first cousin and my ex betrayed me. The whole story is complicated. She dated my boyfriend and married him. I had no idea what was going on until they were about to get married because she was pregnant for him. I did not introduce him to her. She knew him. He was my Uncle's best man and we were in the bridal train. He met us together and went after me. We had a relationship for some years, two years at a stretch, then it became off and on and all those times she knew. She was even engaged to someone else at the time. Unknown to me she 'worked' her NYSC down to Lagos to have my boyfriend. She was living with him and it didn't make any sense to me. Until later on, I found out they were getting married. What pained me most and the worst part of it was when I got to hear about it and confronted him, he said he can never do anything with my sister.and there you are getting her pregnant and marrying her. It got all messed up. This happened in September 2012. I haven't forgiven them. I don't think I ever will"
Any advice for her?
she was your boyfriend not your hubby every man is entitled to marry whom so ever he wishes to marry, maybe you both are not compatible my dear forgive them so God can provide your own man 2 you.
ReplyDeleteyou are giving such a looser too much space in your heart it may kill your chances,just forgive and ignore them,its a matter of time and he will do the same to your cousin,God saved you alot of heartache,hez not worth it.
ReplyDeleteMaybe your attitude and behaviour was not satisfactory to him. Maybe he found your cousin compatable. Forgive and move ahead in life pls
ReplyDeleteniger mina or wat if i hear you talk again i will slap u on air was he yur husband na boyfriend things so he changed his mind you beta wake up who cares to know whether you wil forgive them ................if i hear see your name minakwa make u na leave me to slap dis girl ......goood luck my follow man marry her cousin well dont mind niger mina.
ReplyDeletePls my dear, u av to forgive so dt u can meet d man God has planned for u. Stay bless.
ReplyDeleteNa dating levels oo. Nt husband. U̶̲̥̅̊я̲̣̥ behaviour 2 a guy will only determine if he will betray U̶̲̥̅̊ or nt. So stop lamenting cos U̶̲̥̅̊ A̶̲̥̅яε̲̣̣̣̥ nt a saint. If U̶̲̥̅̊ 4gv her or not,who kia?
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