An Unexpected Breakup

Breakup: Getting over someone you thought you had a connection with is one of life's greatest challenges. Just when you think you've found that special someone worth committing the rest of your life to, the same careless being goes ahead and breaks your heart. 

No matter what the circumstance/reason, the consequences are usually the same catastrophic, especially when the person in question doesn't even have the courtesy to clarify the confusion he left behind.  It can take months and even years to restore the damage caused by heartbreak and while most of us eventually find a way of moving on, it all boils down to one question can we let go without the comfort of closure?  

How to get back the Spark in your Relationship

Dear Bella,

My boyfriend and I decided to give it a last try on our relationship over 7 weeks ago. We have been dating for about 11 months now and it started off really great.  Along the way I picked fights on silly trivial issues mostly because of my insecurities with him due to bad past experiences. I didn't see how silly it was until a couple of weeks ago. The fights always ended up being very intense and pointing fingers both ways. I guess I was scared to commit 100% and was so sure that he was doing something wrong even though he really wasn't.

Funny Celebrity Faces

 Adele

Taylor

Myla is obsessed with Kim Kardashian

I'm getting plastic Surgery to look like Kim K Myla Sinanaj's obsession with Kim Kardashian is getting painful. She's about to undergo a boatload of plastic surgeries designed to make her look JUST LIKE KIM. 

Myla told TMZ she's sick and tired of being called the fat version of Kim K -- and going under the knife will fix it. She explains, "I’m obsessed with her body and want mine to be exactly the same."

In order to do that, slicer-and-dicer Dr. Matthew Schulman will perform $30,000 worth of procedures next month, modeled after Kim's assets lipo, lip injections and a boob job. 

5 Worst Ways to Break up with Someone

Breakups gives me heart ache and am 100% certain no one likes a breakup, but sometimes it needs to be done. If you have to do the dirty work, make sure you do it with sensitivity and empathy. 

1)  SMS, BBM, Whats App, post-it notes etc

People actually do this. Okay, I think the post-it note is from an episode of SATC but I've personally heard of relationships that have been ended with an SMS. Not cool. 

DOES YOUR BOYFRIEND HAVE A FRIEND THAT DRIVES YOU MAD?

Somewhere beneath the realm of brotherly love lies a connection so deep that not even Beyounce's pouty lips and bad-ass boodie could penetrate it. 

This phenomenon is called a "bromance"; a unique and purely platonic bond between two heterosexual males that forms over a variety of interests such as beer, porn, sport,business, Journey and other such recreational past times. 

He's your guy's best and most trusted ally, a confidant and loyal mate, the Robin to his Batman and the dude who you'll probably spend your entire relationship trying to live up to. 

10 African ways to say I LOVE YOU

1.    English - I love you
spoken in Nigeria, Sierra Leone

2.    Afrikaans - Ek is lief vir jou
spoken in south Africa

3.    Bemba – Ndikufuna
Spoken in Zambia, Tanzania, Botswana and DRC

4.    Ewe – Me lonwo
spoken in Togo, Ghana and Benin

5.    Kamba – Ningwemdete
Spoken in Kenya

6.    Malinki –Ni bi fe
Spoken in Gambia

7.    Luo –Aheri
Spoken in  Kenya and Tanzania