5 Steps Before you Propose to Her

Times have changed and so have our roles in relationships. Here are a few ideas to help you come up with the perfect marriage proposal:

1. Check Yourself

You are about to propose spending the rest of your lives together to this woman, forever. So make sure that you are in the right head space to actually make this kind of commitment. I can’t imagine anything worse than finding yourself at the altar only to realize that marriage is not for you.

    2.    Be positive she is ready

Okay, you can never really know when your girlfriend is ready for the next step. But you can have conversations tip-toeing around it and get a sense of how she feels about marriage.  Don’t only rely on your eagerness to be a Mr. that will only leave you hurt. So, pay attention to her feelings and responses to the subject.

10 Celebs who should never CUT their HAIR AGAIN

Anne Hathaway:
We love those thick, luscious locks Anne, so please don’t get rid of them again.

My Husband Keeps Ignoring Me does that Mean His Cheating??

Dear Bella,

I have been married for 13 years; i went through a very rough patch in March-- May this year.My husband asked for a Divorce telling me he was involved with another woman and had feelings for her. Presently the woman is out of the picture and we decided to move on with our lives, everything went back to normal. Now for the past weeks since my birthday 26 March were he actually didn't get me any gift, I pretended not to be bordered as I know he is busy with his new job. My husband is drifting away from me and I can feel it, I proposed a vacation to help us reconnect Bella u won’t believe all my husband did was sleep, on Monday was our anniversary we had dinner plans he BBM me from work he is very tired and going to bed early so I cancelled the dinner. He started a new job in Feb and they keep him very busy he has to restructure the whole business, so he is up late at nights and is not getting enough sleep. I do understand the pressure he is under, it just feel as if we do not have time anymore. I send him short messages and e-mail which he does not even reply to, the last he told me love was in a BBM 2/04.

The Pain Behind Beauty

Behind every beautiful thing, there's some kind of pain You caught me looking back again A reminder of where I've been Help me believe somehow, will You open my eyes Through fire, through the rain.

Counting losses I have gained, it’s a matter of time Till I see the beauty, the beauty in all the pain

INSPIRATION

                           
                            Look up at the stars and not Down at your Feet!!!
Never give up work. Work gives you meaning and purpose and life is empty without it. If you are lucky enough to find love, remember it is there and don't throw it away.” 

Katie Couric Apologizing to Kim Kardashian

Katie Couric insists her baby gift to Kim Kardashian and Kanye West was not a fake Hollywood gesture and says her comments about Kim's family were taken out of context.

Kim put Katie on blast today when she Instagrammed a pic of Katie's gift and card with the hash tag #IHateFakeMediaFriends.

Tips on How to Wake the Passion in your marriage

Even the most loved-up couple has to accept that as time passes the initial heat of the “honeymoon period” will cool to a gentle simmer, unless a concerted effort is made to keep the flames leaping around.

Role playing is good and fantasizing about his donning shining Armour and showing up on a white steed can only be good for your libido. But wishful thinking and leaving it up to him to miraculously happen upon new and adventurous ways to rekindle those original thrills and delicious sensations that made you fall in love in the first place, is neither fair nor realistic.

So, as a red blooded woman who is contentedly hitched but longs for real fireworks, take the initiative and help turn your sensual wish-list into reality. After all, we live in an equal opportunity world and romance comes in all kinds of guises.