5 Worst Ways to Break up with Someone

Breakups gives me heart ache and am 100% certain no one likes a breakup, but sometimes it needs to be done. If you have to do the dirty work, make sure you do it with sensitivity and empathy. 

1)  SMS, BBM, Whats App, post-it notes etc

People actually do this. Okay, I think the post-it note is from an episode of SATC but I've personally heard of relationships that have been ended with an SMS. Not cool. 

DOES YOUR BOYFRIEND HAVE A FRIEND THAT DRIVES YOU MAD?

Somewhere beneath the realm of brotherly love lies a connection so deep that not even Beyounce's pouty lips and bad-ass boodie could penetrate it. 

This phenomenon is called a "bromance"; a unique and purely platonic bond between two heterosexual males that forms over a variety of interests such as beer, porn, sport,business, Journey and other such recreational past times. 

He's your guy's best and most trusted ally, a confidant and loyal mate, the Robin to his Batman and the dude who you'll probably spend your entire relationship trying to live up to. 

10 African ways to say I LOVE YOU

1.    English - I love you
spoken in Nigeria, Sierra Leone

2.    Afrikaans - Ek is lief vir jou
spoken in south Africa

3.    Bemba – Ndikufuna
Spoken in Zambia, Tanzania, Botswana and DRC

4.    Ewe – Me lonwo
spoken in Togo, Ghana and Benin

5.    Kamba – Ningwemdete
Spoken in Kenya

6.    Malinki –Ni bi fe
Spoken in Gambia

7.    Luo –Aheri
Spoken in  Kenya and Tanzania

Being in Love has 7 Benefiits

Everyone appreciates the magical feeling of being in love!!! Studies have shown that being in love goes beyond that warm and fuzzy feeling and the obvious advantage of always having a date for Valentine’s Day. The health benefits of love may surprise you - love can keep you healthy mentally, physically, socially and spiritually too. 

1.    Love may make you live longer

Since the beginning of time, humans have depended on one another for survival. As social animals we all have biological drives that naturally make us want to find an intimate bond with others. In addition, the study also showed that people will often adopt safer behaviors when they are coupled up. 

5 Steps Before you Propose to Her

Times have changed and so have our roles in relationships. Here are a few ideas to help you come up with the perfect marriage proposal:

1. Check Yourself

You are about to propose spending the rest of your lives together to this woman, forever. So make sure that you are in the right head space to actually make this kind of commitment. I can’t imagine anything worse than finding yourself at the altar only to realize that marriage is not for you.

    2.    Be positive she is ready

Okay, you can never really know when your girlfriend is ready for the next step. But you can have conversations tip-toeing around it and get a sense of how she feels about marriage.  Don’t only rely on your eagerness to be a Mr. that will only leave you hurt. So, pay attention to her feelings and responses to the subject.

10 Celebs who should never CUT their HAIR AGAIN

Anne Hathaway:
We love those thick, luscious locks Anne, so please don’t get rid of them again.

My Husband Keeps Ignoring Me does that Mean His Cheating??

Dear Bella,

I have been married for 13 years; i went through a very rough patch in March-- May this year.My husband asked for a Divorce telling me he was involved with another woman and had feelings for her. Presently the woman is out of the picture and we decided to move on with our lives, everything went back to normal. Now for the past weeks since my birthday 26 March were he actually didn't get me any gift, I pretended not to be bordered as I know he is busy with his new job. My husband is drifting away from me and I can feel it, I proposed a vacation to help us reconnect Bella u won’t believe all my husband did was sleep, on Monday was our anniversary we had dinner plans he BBM me from work he is very tired and going to bed early so I cancelled the dinner. He started a new job in Feb and they keep him very busy he has to restructure the whole business, so he is up late at nights and is not getting enough sleep. I do understand the pressure he is under, it just feel as if we do not have time anymore. I send him short messages and e-mail which he does not even reply to, the last he told me love was in a BBM 2/04.