Tips on How to Wake the Passion in your marriage

Even the most loved-up couple has to accept that as time passes the initial heat of the “honeymoon period” will cool to a gentle simmer, unless a concerted effort is made to keep the flames leaping around.

Role playing is good and fantasizing about his donning shining Armour and showing up on a white steed can only be good for your libido. But wishful thinking and leaving it up to him to miraculously happen upon new and adventurous ways to rekindle those original thrills and delicious sensations that made you fall in love in the first place, is neither fair nor realistic.

So, as a red blooded woman who is contentedly hitched but longs for real fireworks, take the initiative and help turn your sensual wish-list into reality. After all, we live in an equal opportunity world and romance comes in all kinds of guises.

Handwritten welcome home note when he’s been away on business will be much appreciated but if you’re looking for a somewhat more demonstrative response, a well-planned dinner served by candlelight, with a few choice aphrodisiacs on the menu, is more likely to rekindle the embers.

Follow this up with a relaxing foot massage with scented aromatherapy massage oil; you’re bound to be hot footing it to the bedroom even before desert is served.

Variety will always be the spice of life, so be adventurous and mix thing up any way you can.

Making love will never have felt better.