Friday, August 30, 2013

Five Lifestyle than Ruin a Relationship

Getting stuck in argument ruts
Couples often disagree over unnecessary things which leads to debate. The problem, however, arises when, instead of staying on point and sorting out the issue at hand, it morphs into a huge fight that now includes rants about ‘old’ usually unresolved spats of the past. 

Insulting each other
Making malicious and hurtful comments in the company of others. Being unforgiving
The feeling of not being able to say “I’m sorry” Pride and the inability to accept responsibility for our actions often stands in the way of happiness.


Taking each other for granted and questioning your every decision

•    Do you turn to him for his thoughts and/or advice?
•    Do you consider him when making a decision?
•    Do you thank him when he’s done something good and/or right?
•    Do you thank and compliment him when he means well?
•    Do you listen to him and/or pay attention to his needs?

Lack of physical intimacy
It could be as ‘small’ as forgoing a habitual morning kiss; or as ‘big’ as not bothering with sex as often. Just because you’re feeling more settled in your relationship lately, doesn’t make these gestures any less important. It is, in fact, even more important now, that is, if you still want to keep the flame and romance alive.

If I missed out on any other bad habits kindly enlighten us and add to this list in the comments facility below.




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