Five Lifestyle than Ruin a Relationship

Getting stuck in argument ruts

Couples often disagree over unnecessary things which leads to debate. The problem, however, arises when, instead of staying on point and sorting out the issue at hand, it morphs into a huge fight that now includes rants about ‘old’ usually unresolved spats of the past. 

Insulting each other

Making malicious and hurtful comments in the company of others. Being unforgiving

The feeling of not being able to say “I’m sorry” Pride and the inability to accept responsibility for our actions often stands in the way of happiness.

4 Ways to Keep your Relationship

1. Tongue

Women no matter how hard and tempting it is to tell your man what you think of him during a quarrel DON’T. You know deep down inside you love him, so why try and tear him apart with words you will never be able to take back, only to regret it later. Belittling your man is not on.

2.   Change

Most women endure to stay with a man with the intentions/hope of changing him well take my advice don’t try to change him. You knew who he was when you met him so why try and change him now? If you not happy with who he is, maybe he is not exactly the one. Appreciate him.

Hard Times, Harsh Parent

Have you ever noticed yourself becoming harsh to your child at the slightest misbehavior? Or did you ever notice your parents being harsh to you as a child? Parents blame it on the bad economy so says a recent study conducted by a lot of University. One of the researchers is quoted saying “It's commonly thought that economic hardship within families leads to stress, which, in turn, leads to deterioration of parenting quality. 

Crazy Dating Behaviors Men Have

Over the years I learnt that dating game is a never ending round of broken telephone between the sexes. Most times we think we learn by experience and if that’s the case I’m about to achieve my masters in dating. I've done my own research and studied the experience of other field operatives and I hate to make this a ‘he said, she said’ business, but the message I am receiving consistently from single women regardless of age or area is that men make no sense at all. “Simply Stated” 

The ‘Dating Behaviors of  Men  are baffling and exhausting, so I've listed a few common points for us to ponder any of them familiar to you?

THE EASIEST WAY TO GET JOBS IN UK

Most people assume that getting a job in the UK is as easy as buying a bottle of water my dear friends shred that assumption away and wake up. What most people fail to realize is that a lot of things are brought to question in UK and after finding a job; it takes the same amount of time spent on looking for job to go through the different stages of training for the job.

No matter the kind of job you are applying for, be it cleaning, receptionist, banker, customer assistant, support worker u name it. These are the documents needed before u start training for a particular job.

Are all men Mummy's Boy?

Dear Bella will women ever understand the relationship between their men and mothers? asks Sarah.

Understanding the relationship between men and their mothers is the most difficult task ever. From the moment their little princes exit the womb, these mothers are completely obsessed and the umbilical cord stays metaphorically intact for the rest of their lives. This weird obsession tends to go both ways because the first meaningful relationship a man has with a woman is shared with his mother. 

My failure to comprehend this phenomenon only got worse when I started dating I dated a guy once who was still very much attached to his mother. He was constantly running around doing things for her and I stumbled upon cuddle sessions in the kitchen more than I care to mention.

A Dangerous Liaison with the Wrong Man

These days the kind of men that prowls around our city streets in abundance have drawn some attention and  ladies this is what to look out for. He's confident, charming and always has a twinge of a smile plastered around the corners of his face, just like the Cheshire cat who tormented poor Alice as she fell down that wretched rabbit-hole don’t fall for it.

He's self-assured, cocky and satisfied by the dirty thoughts running through his mind as he scans any given location for his latest conquest. He is a Casanova, gigolo, eligible bachelor; there are a number of words I could use to describe a man of his caliber. He's a skillful slut loaded with swagger, armed with a one-track mind and a black belt in seduction.