Fighting For Love !!!

What is the worst that can happen in any relationship? Losing faith in your relationship. We all know that authentic relationships and long-term bliss are difficult to achieve. Disagreements are part of being a thinking person. It's how we deal with conflict that's a key issue. "We are not taught relationship conflict resolution skills when growing up, so we need to learn them on our own.

My Husband still Talks to his Ex

If your husband is still in contact with his ex- Ladies watch out that's a recipe for disaster. As we all know maintaining a healthy and happy marriage is hard. But it becomes even more difficult when a third person is involve. whats worse? is when the other person in the way is a former lover.

In my opinion an ex is an ex for a reason: but feel free to let me know what you think? 

Drawing a Timetable on when to get laid by your Husband

Women women women!!! This is a serious matter, I can’t but wonder why a rule like this exist in some of our bedrooms, anyway below are the only reasons why a woman should have a timetable in her bedroom.

INFERTILITY
This is a situation where couples cannot get pregnant despite having regular unprotected s*x. Doctors might recommend a timetable in the bedroom which helps the couple have s*x only on days the woman ovulates.                                     

4 REASONS WHY MOST PEOPLE DON’T OFFER ASSISTANCE ABROAD

In most foreign countries especially (UK and USA) laws allows you to sue for no solid reason and lawyers are happily helping people achieve this without realizing the damage its causing the society. Everyone leaving abroad is accustomed to either suing or getting sued so everyone tries to be extra careful. In a scary society like this here is what people had to say.

Try seeing Life through Gaga's Glasses

Life through a lens: Lady Gaga deals with sunshine in London as only she can, by wearing bizarre sunglasses and an open-fronted black suit that shows off her bra.

I still don't understand how she operates, if wore these glasses i would need a walking stick.

Do you Earn more than your Man

Men are most threatened by a woman who makes more money, while in most homes neither the male nor the female ego plays a major role. But some men find it impossible to swap these roles. A successful woman who is involved with a man with low self-esteem, who can't handle her financial success, can get very depressed by the belittling accusations that her partner makes.

Now ladies if you earn more than him and it’s causing tension, try these practical steps:

Five Lifestyle than Ruin a Relationship

Getting stuck in argument ruts

Couples often disagree over unnecessary things which leads to debate. The problem, however, arises when, instead of staying on point and sorting out the issue at hand, it morphs into a huge fight that now includes rants about ‘old’ usually unresolved spats of the past. 

Insulting each other

Making malicious and hurtful comments in the company of others. Being unforgiving

The feeling of not being able to say “I’m sorry” Pride and the inability to accept responsibility for our actions often stands in the way of happiness.

4 Ways to Keep your Relationship

1. Tongue

Women no matter how hard and tempting it is to tell your man what you think of him during a quarrel DON’T. You know deep down inside you love him, so why try and tear him apart with words you will never be able to take back, only to regret it later. Belittling your man is not on.

2.   Change

Most women endure to stay with a man with the intentions/hope of changing him well take my advice don’t try to change him. You knew who he was when you met him so why try and change him now? If you not happy with who he is, maybe he is not exactly the one. Appreciate him.

Hard Times, Harsh Parent

Have you ever noticed yourself becoming harsh to your child at the slightest misbehavior? Or did you ever notice your parents being harsh to you as a child? Parents blame it on the bad economy so says a recent study conducted by a lot of University. One of the researchers is quoted saying “It's commonly thought that economic hardship within families leads to stress, which, in turn, leads to deterioration of parenting quality. 

Crazy Dating Behaviors Men Have

Over the years I learnt that dating game is a never ending round of broken telephone between the sexes. Most times we think we learn by experience and if that’s the case I’m about to achieve my masters in dating. I've done my own research and studied the experience of other field operatives and I hate to make this a ‘he said, she said’ business, but the message I am receiving consistently from single women regardless of age or area is that men make no sense at all. “Simply Stated” 

The ‘Dating Behaviors of  Men  are baffling and exhausting, so I've listed a few common points for us to ponder any of them familiar to you?

THE EASIEST WAY TO GET JOBS IN UK

Most people assume that getting a job in the UK is as easy as buying a bottle of water my dear friends shred that assumption away and wake up. What most people fail to realize is that a lot of things are brought to question in UK and after finding a job; it takes the same amount of time spent on looking for job to go through the different stages of training for the job.

No matter the kind of job you are applying for, be it cleaning, receptionist, banker, customer assistant, support worker u name it. These are the documents needed before u start training for a particular job.

Are all men Mummy's Boy?

Dear Bella will women ever understand the relationship between their men and mothers? asks Sarah.

Understanding the relationship between men and their mothers is the most difficult task ever. From the moment their little princes exit the womb, these mothers are completely obsessed and the umbilical cord stays metaphorically intact for the rest of their lives. This weird obsession tends to go both ways because the first meaningful relationship a man has with a woman is shared with his mother. 

My failure to comprehend this phenomenon only got worse when I started dating I dated a guy once who was still very much attached to his mother. He was constantly running around doing things for her and I stumbled upon cuddle sessions in the kitchen more than I care to mention.

A Dangerous Liaison with the Wrong Man

These days the kind of men that prowls around our city streets in abundance have drawn some attention and  ladies this is what to look out for. He's confident, charming and always has a twinge of a smile plastered around the corners of his face, just like the Cheshire cat who tormented poor Alice as she fell down that wretched rabbit-hole don’t fall for it.

He's self-assured, cocky and satisfied by the dirty thoughts running through his mind as he scans any given location for his latest conquest. He is a Casanova, gigolo, eligible bachelor; there are a number of words I could use to describe a man of his caliber. He's a skillful slut loaded with swagger, armed with a one-track mind and a black belt in seduction. 

Lamar Odom --- Drug Trail

Sources connected to a Westin hotel in Memphis tell TMZ, in March of 2012, shortly before Lamar was cut from the Mavs; he stayed in one of the guest rooms while his team was in town playing the Grizzlies. Sources say when Lamar left, hotel employees found major carpet damage including quarter-sized burn marks. The damage was so bad; the hotel had to replace the carpeting in the room.

Why Men Hide Behind Alchohol

Alcohol is consumed in almost toxic amounts by many young males looking to have a good time, but many are unaware that consuming large amounts of alcohol can make them impotent and cause erectile dysfunction. These terms describe the condition where an erection is difficult to achieve or hard to maintain even when being stimulate in a sexual way. 

Khloe and Lamar Marriage crisis

Maraiage Crisis; The marriage of Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom is in crisis, and sources tells us the core reason is hardcore drug abuse.

Multiple sources familiar with the situation tell TMZ  Lamar has had a problem for 2 years.  It got so bad; last August Khloe pressured Lamar to go to rehab.  Lamar went to a facility in San Diego, but he was so resistant Khloe hired private investigators to secretly stand guard at the rehab place to make sure he didn't leave.  Our sources say Lamar constantly threatened to leave and Khloe made several visits to prevail upon him to stay.  We're told after 3 weeks, Lamar left for good.

We're told Lamar actually stayed clean once he left rehab and was able to play well for the Clippers this past season.  But when the season was over, sources say Lamar slipped deep back into hardcore recreational drugs.  As for reports that Lamar was cheating recently, we're told Khloe is convinced it happened, and she feels she's been hit with a double whammy, but drugs are the

3 Reason your Boyfriend/Husband Never Listens to You

Good Communication is the cornerstone to a strong relationship, many couples struggle with it and at some point you will hear things like “You never listen to me!” does that sounds familiar? Of course it does. But maybe it’s not his hearing or his understanding to blame. Maybe it’s your approach or your method of delivery that needs a bit of adjusting.

1. Consider the Fact that you Might be too Aggressive

Talking to him in a condescending and belittling way is not only insulting and disrespectful, but it won’t help you get whatever you want, in fact, you could be compromising your relationship, because his reaction is likely to be similar. Or, even worse, defensive.

Adele to rival J.K. Rowling

Adele has been asked to write a children's book.

The 25 year old singer, who has 10 month old son Angelo with her boyfriend Simon Konecki - has been approached by top publishing company Puffin to pen a story for kids which will be an easy-read for beginners, feature simple images and follow a story line based on motherhood.

An insider told the Daily Star newspaper, "Adele loves the idea. It won't reveal anything too personal as that's not her style. But the book will be something she can have as a memory of her early days as a mum and also something she can dedicate to her son. Everyone is very excited". 

Kris Jenner and Kim Kardashian got Scammed!!!

Biggest scam of the year!!!

Two college kids managed to steal from the rich and famous don't know if you remember that scene in "Identity Thief" where Melissa McCarthy is getting absolutely wasted at the expense of someone else’s credit card? 

Well, that’s kinda what happened when 19-year-old Loui Flores and his roommate Kyah Green managed to persuade the American Express to change the social security numbers of Kim Kardashian, Ashton Kutcher, Paris Hilton and Kris Jenner, and issue him new cards.

Kanye and Kim reveals baby pics

North West Pics finally revealed
She is so cute!!! North you were worth the wait.

GET UP AND TRY

Do you ever stop wondering about what he's doing?

Do you ever stop wondering how all he says turned out to be lies?

Do you ever stop wondering how sometimes you think that it's better to never ask why?

Single Again

Eva Longoria: Single Again

Eva Longoria (the sexiest 38-year-old woman on Earth) is now officially single. Sources tell TMZ, the former "Desperate Housewives" star split from boyfriend Ernesto Arguello this week after dating for roughly 4 months.The two met while Longoria was producing her dating show "Ready for Love." Ernesto was a bachelor on the program, but after the show went off the air, Eva decided to take Ernesto for herself.

Eva and Ernesto were spotted canoodling in Spain as recently as two weeks ago (above), but once they got back to L.A., we're told they decided their busy lifestyles just didn't mesh.Eva spends most of her time in L.A., and Ernesto is situated primarily in Miami, so they decided it would be better to split. But some sources aren't convinced it's completely over -- as one source put it, "They're just on hold right now."If you want to scoop Eva up, you better act fast.

True Love Looks like this

Sometimes I hate every single stupid word you say, Sometimes I want to slap you in your whole face, even when I tell myself there's no one quite like you. You push all my buttons down, yet I tell myself life would suck without you and at the same time, I want to hug you, I want to wrap my hands around your neck, I know within me you're a flirt and looser but I still love you, and you make me so mad I ask myself, why I'm still here? Or where could I go? You're the only love I've ever known, but I hate you, I really hate you, So much, I think it must be True love.

LET HER GO

Well you only need the light when it's burning low,Only miss the sun when it starts to snow, Only know you love her when you let her go, Only know you've been high when you're feeling low, Only hate the road when you’re missing' home, Only know you love her when you let her go,and you let her go.

Staring at the bottom of your glass,Hoping one day you'll make a dream last,But dreams come slow and they go so fast, You see her when you close your eyes

Maybe one day you'll understand why, Everything you touch surely dies

Intruder found at JLo's Estate

Break-in at Jennifer Lopez estate: Police say an intruder had been living for a week on Jennifer Lopez's property in the Hamptons while she was away.

Southampton police said on Wednesday the entertainer had an order of protection against 49-year-old John Dubis. Information on why the order was obtained was not immediately available.

Justin Bieber says he cant wait to have Kids

Justin Bieber says he cant wait to have Kids "can't wait" to get married and have children.

The 19-year-old singer - who is known for his on/off relationship with Selena Gomez, admits his main priority for the future is to tie the knot with a significant other and start creating some offspring, but he's not forcing things and is letting fate do the work.He is quoted by In Touch Weekly magazine as saying: "I can't wait to have a beautiful wife and little kids running around, but those things are in God's hands, not mine."

Kanye West Talks Love

Kanye West proclaims his love for Kim Kardashian and their daughter in an interview with Kardashian's mother, Kris Jenner.

Kanye says on Jenner's talk show, Kris, that after his mother died he was willing to put "my life at risk", but now he has "two really special people to live for, a family to live for, a world to live for".

Celebs VS Wax figures

Celebs VS Wax figures : can you tell them apart try.

Adele

Collin firth

Which would you Prefer A Slot Daughter or a Gay Son?

Learning to love your gay son:

We were completely shocked. Not that we didn't know and love gay people, my only brother had come out to us several years before, and we adored him. But Ryan? He was unafraid of anything, tough as nails. We had not seen this coming, and the emotion that overwhelmed us, kept us awake at night and, sadly, influenced all of our reactions over the next six years, was FEAR.

We said all the things that we thought loving Christian parents who believed the Bible – the Word of God – should say:

We love you. We will ALWAYS love you. And this is hard. REALLY hard. But we know what God says about this, and so you are going to have to make some really difficult choices. We love you. We couldn't love you more. But there are other men who have faced this same struggle, and God has worked in them to change their desires. We’ll get you their book; you can listen to their testimonies.

Put up a Wall when it Comes to Love!!!

Every one of us has been hurt at some point in our lives. Trusting again is difficult. We don’t want to experience that pain and heartache again so we build a wall around ourselves. This can become the best defence mechanism or it can make you your own worst enemy.

What happens if a really good man or woman shows up at your door - do you pretend you don’t have feelings? Keep those feelings to yourself and sign up for an acting role in I’m just not that into you part 2? 

What happens when all these lines, boundaries, walls etc. backfire?  

He is Just not that into You

How can I be in love with a guy who doesn't feel the same way about me?

When it comes to our own lives and to that ONE special guy who makes us weak in the knees, who plucks at our heart strings with both hands tied behind his back, our Spice Girl power goes out the window faster than you can say “I don’t need a man to validate me”. 

This guy becomes our blind spot, your strongest weakness. 

Just in Case (more commonly known as “Just In Case”) is a smooth operator. 

He knows how to push our buttons. He knows how to get under our skin. He knows how to offer just enough of himself to keep us hooked. He doesn't really want us to stay, but he doesn't really want us to go either. 

Be honest Unconditional Love or Money?

We already know that when it comes to long term relationships and being happy, love is important. Money as many will agree plays a vital role too.  More so if you’re married or living together. It pays the bills and buys the things we need and even the things we just want. 

8 most Annoying People in an Office

1. Little Miss Know-It-All
She is always the first to answer questions and doesn't think twice about chipping in on a conversation. Oh, and she's never wrong (according to her, at least.)
2. The moaner
We all know her. She spends the entire day complaining about co-workers, her workload, management, HR and the boss. Yet she has worked there for years and probably will never, ever leave.

Love is Not Free

Adapting is tough no matter how budget-savvy you are it's hard to avoid the ever increasing cost of living. Thanks to inflation, we are forced to make certain cutbacks in our month-to-month expenses in order to keep up with the negative side-effects that price hikes have on our bank accounts. Unless you are in the fortunate position where money is no object, inflation essentially comes down to one thing compromise.

As I searched the shelves for the cheapest pack of no-range skinless turkey breasts, I started thinking about relationships and the cost of loving. Any relationship worth staying in requires time, patience, sacrifice and a shit load of effort. Life happens somewhere in-between and we are often faced with compromising scenarios that are as unfavourable and unpredictable as fluctuating inflation rates.

Lee Thompson Young Dead

The Famous Jett Jackson actor who played the main character on Disney's Lee Thompson Young has allegedly committed suicide, TMZ has learned.  He was 29.  Young's body was discovered inside his North Hollywood home Monday with a self-inflicted gunshot wound, according to sources. It's unclear why Young took his own life. Lee's publicist said, "It is with great sadness that I announce that Lee Thompson Young tragically took his own life this morning Lee was more than just a brilliant young actor, he was a wonderful and gentle soul who will be truly missed." 

5 Signs of an Abusive Relationship

There are several threats that determines whether or not a relationship is abusive or not. For some people in abusive relationship it can be difficult to recognize the signs or even accept that their relationship is abusive because they have become accustomed to their partners behaviour. Those who abuse their partners physically or psychologically are doing so to gain control over their partner, using fear, guilt, shame and intimidation to exercise their power. 

Physical signs

People who are being physically abuse may have frequent unexplained scars and bruises on their bodies. Victims are also known to frequently miss work, school or social occasions without explanation. Often injuries are described as ‘accidents’ even when it may be obvious that this is not the case.

What a Woman Wants

Some men find this challenging and feel that showing sensitivity or expressing their feelings emasculates them. Often, they choose to show their affection with lavish gifts and expensive dinners. All the while thinking that this is what women want. While those things are all wonderful, a woman can have all of that and still feel unsatisfied.

Are the best things in life free?

I would be lying if I said I didn't like gifts. I mean, honestly, who wouldn't want their man to buy them a lovely bunch of roses, but your love and affection need not cost the earth or anything for that matter? My boyfriend, for instance, often makes me a toasted sandwich and lovingly cup of hot chocolate. This didn't cost him a cent, he picked it from the kitchen, but the effort to make my humble sandwich and hot chocolate shows me he cares. Its little things like these that make a world of a difference.

An Unexpected Breakup

Breakup: Getting over someone you thought you had a connection with is one of life's greatest challenges. Just when you think you've found that special someone worth committing the rest of your life to, the same careless being goes ahead and breaks your heart. 

No matter what the circumstance/reason, the consequences are usually the same catastrophic, especially when the person in question doesn't even have the courtesy to clarify the confusion he left behind.  It can take months and even years to restore the damage caused by heartbreak and while most of us eventually find a way of moving on, it all boils down to one question can we let go without the comfort of closure?  

How to get back the Spark in your Relationship

Dear Bella,

My boyfriend and I decided to give it a last try on our relationship over 7 weeks ago. We have been dating for about 11 months now and it started off really great.  Along the way I picked fights on silly trivial issues mostly because of my insecurities with him due to bad past experiences. I didn't see how silly it was until a couple of weeks ago. The fights always ended up being very intense and pointing fingers both ways. I guess I was scared to commit 100% and was so sure that he was doing something wrong even though he really wasn't.

Funny Celebrity Faces

 Adele

Taylor

Myla is obsessed with Kim Kardashian

I'm getting plastic Surgery to look like Kim K Myla Sinanaj's obsession with Kim Kardashian is getting painful. She's about to undergo a boatload of plastic surgeries designed to make her look JUST LIKE KIM. 

Myla told TMZ she's sick and tired of being called the fat version of Kim K -- and going under the knife will fix it. She explains, "I’m obsessed with her body and want mine to be exactly the same."

In order to do that, slicer-and-dicer Dr. Matthew Schulman will perform $30,000 worth of procedures next month, modeled after Kim's assets lipo, lip injections and a boob job. 

5 Worst Ways to Break up with Someone

Breakups gives me heart ache and am 100% certain no one likes a breakup, but sometimes it needs to be done. If you have to do the dirty work, make sure you do it with sensitivity and empathy. 

1)  SMS, BBM, Whats App, post-it notes etc

People actually do this. Okay, I think the post-it note is from an episode of SATC but I've personally heard of relationships that have been ended with an SMS. Not cool. 

DOES YOUR BOYFRIEND HAVE A FRIEND THAT DRIVES YOU MAD?

Somewhere beneath the realm of brotherly love lies a connection so deep that not even Beyounce's pouty lips and bad-ass boodie could penetrate it. 

This phenomenon is called a "bromance"; a unique and purely platonic bond between two heterosexual males that forms over a variety of interests such as beer, porn, sport,business, Journey and other such recreational past times. 

He's your guy's best and most trusted ally, a confidant and loyal mate, the Robin to his Batman and the dude who you'll probably spend your entire relationship trying to live up to. 

10 African ways to say I LOVE YOU

1.    English - I love you
spoken in Nigeria, Sierra Leone

2.    Afrikaans - Ek is lief vir jou
spoken in south Africa

3.    Bemba – Ndikufuna
Spoken in Zambia, Tanzania, Botswana and DRC

4.    Ewe – Me lonwo
spoken in Togo, Ghana and Benin

5.    Kamba – Ningwemdete
Spoken in Kenya

6.    Malinki –Ni bi fe
Spoken in Gambia

7.    Luo –Aheri
Spoken in  Kenya and Tanzania

Being in Love has 7 Benefiits

Everyone appreciates the magical feeling of being in love!!! Studies have shown that being in love goes beyond that warm and fuzzy feeling and the obvious advantage of always having a date for Valentine’s Day. The health benefits of love may surprise you - love can keep you healthy mentally, physically, socially and spiritually too. 

1.    Love may make you live longer

Since the beginning of time, humans have depended on one another for survival. As social animals we all have biological drives that naturally make us want to find an intimate bond with others. In addition, the study also showed that people will often adopt safer behaviors when they are coupled up. 

5 Steps Before you Propose to Her

Times have changed and so have our roles in relationships. Here are a few ideas to help you come up with the perfect marriage proposal:

1. Check Yourself

You are about to propose spending the rest of your lives together to this woman, forever. So make sure that you are in the right head space to actually make this kind of commitment. I can’t imagine anything worse than finding yourself at the altar only to realize that marriage is not for you.

    2.    Be positive she is ready

Okay, you can never really know when your girlfriend is ready for the next step. But you can have conversations tip-toeing around it and get a sense of how she feels about marriage.  Don’t only rely on your eagerness to be a Mr. that will only leave you hurt. So, pay attention to her feelings and responses to the subject.